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Thursday, March 27, 2008

Paternal Sentiment and Hallmark Wisdom

 After posting here, I e-mailed yesterday's blog to my parents.  I got two insightful replies.

From dad:
When I visit Chicago, and if there is time -- which there usually isn't -- I sometimes visit Albany Park, a neighborhood from which I moved in 1954.  We had moved there about 10 years earlier. 

I'll walk around looking at the apt. building in which I lived, the schools (public and Hebrew) I attended, the stores at which we shopped, the movie theaters I attended (they are all torn down now), the alleys in which we played. 

And I'll remember the people I knew, wondering what happened to so many of them and knowing what happend to others.  Anyway, I appreciate the feelings you're having as you prepare for the next chapter in your life.

Love,
Dad

PS:  Funny, but I hadn't thought about Albany Park or its people for some time.  It was a bittersweet exercise. 

From mom:
I understand.
Changes like that were always hard for me, too.
When I first moved from Chicago I cried like a baby.
I felt better after seeing a poster in a Hallmark store -- a big flower -- and it said:
"Bloom where you are Planted."
 mom

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...you know, I think I stopped emailing my parents when one of my mother's emails had a smiley-face in it. That was enough for me.
Posted 3/27/2008 7:45 PM by Drakonskyr Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Your parents sound like sweet, thoughtful people.

Good luck with your move. You'll be fine.
Posted 3/27/2008 7:56 PM by Another_Perfect_Wonder Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I think I adore your parents.
Posted 3/27/2008 8:21 PM by TorontoGirl - reply

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Your 'rents are wise folks for their tidbits of wisdom.
Posted 3/27/2008 8:25 PM by toxicned Xanga True Member - reply

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You gots good folks there. 
Posted 3/27/2008 8:51 PM by ChaosMoon Xanga Premium Member - reply

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It's wonderful that you and your parents communicate feelings/experiences openly.

I live near where I grew up and a bit further away is where I fell in love. I visit those places sometimes. They have not changed much yet, not as much as I have anyway.

I hope there is plenty of good walking at your new digs.
Posted 3/27/2008 9:10 PM by Boowasborn Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I certainly hope you print out those emails and put them in your special drawer.  At least that's what I call my special place(s) because I'm paranoid my computer will crash and I'll lose certain electronic letters.
Posted 3/27/2008 10:19 PM by EmpressTangent Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Your parents are awfully cute.

Congrats on your purchase, btw...getting a mortgage was honestly the first (and so far, only) debt I felt really good about getting into.

Posted 3/27/2008 10:46 PM by Kallikrates Xanga Lifetime Member - reply

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Your parents are quite insightful. I'm in my third major habitat, now, and I don't think I'll ever learn to get over any place I've ever called "home".
Posted 3/28/2008 1:01 AM by stubrock - reply

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In Michigan, My childhood home was near Traverse City, I still drive by it, when I visit my parent who moved four years ago. I am supposed to go this completely opposite way that saves time, gas..etc. But I always drive the same way to drive past my old neighborhood. Why do you think the Barenaked Ladies wrote "Old Apartment" hahahah

Posted 3/28/2008 5:39 AM by Random1974 Xanga Premium Member - reply

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What great people .. you are very lucky!
Posted 3/28/2008 7:26 AM by Redsheila - reply

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Neither of the places that I grew up hold a physical bond for me now. Granted I live in the same state, close to the same city...however the first home I grew up in had so many changes done to it over the years, it doesn't even feel like the same place. The second one was torn down two months after my dad moved. Each home I spent a good part of ten years living in. A couple of apartments later, I realized that there's comfort in knowing the places I grew up would always be the same in my memory.

Memory is a powerful thing.

I hope that makes sense.

I love your parents' bits of wisdom, by the way.

Posted 3/28/2008 12:59 PM by a_ankrom - reply

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Kosher wine for you. I read somehwere that there is no reason to suffer the Man. I swear I would have brought some to your new place, but traffic was insane.

Really I came here to leave a photo of buns of steel but I realized I would be enabling.
Posted 4/20/2008 8:30 PM by Boowasborn Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Odd karma...or something, that I stopped here today. I dreamed about my childhood Chicago home last night.....

Having had 27 different addresses in this particular lifetime, I am ever so glad that my memory still works. There are sweet somethings & bittersweet somethings to recall about each of them.

Happy new home!
Posted 5/12/2008 3:23 PM by FifiOToole Xanga Premium Member - reply

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It's been a long time since you've posted anything.
If you ever get around to posting again, it would be a very good thing.
For us, I mean.
g.
Posted 5/26/2008 6:30 PM by underused Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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dear eff,

it's been three months.

an update would be super.

kls
Posted 6/15/2008 2:11 PM by nightlikeariver Xanga Premium Member - reply

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Have to say, your parents are cool.
Posted 7/13/2008 11:26 PM by pajan - reply

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Hyde Park sucks. Clifton is a magical place of wonderment. So, shut the hell up.

Seriously though, nostalgia is a bitch.
Posted 11/2/2008 6:27 PM by Professor_Z - reply

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You need to post on here. What happened with the move?
Posted 12/16/2008 2:02 PM by LocoSerena - reply

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You know, I was just thinking about you ... glad that you commented. We lit the candles last night in my handmade aluminum foil menorah. My sister-in-law's boyfriend is also Jewish, but he made me do the prayers solo. In front of the rest of my Catholic in-laws. Ass.

Hope you're well!
Posted 12/24/2008 10:10 AM by thatsmysong - reply

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How the hell are you?
Posted 3/30/2009 7:45 AM by PunkConfusion - reply

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*sniff* *sniff* Have you checked the expiration date on your milk?
Posted 8/29/2009 10:04 PM by Boowasborn Xanga True Member Xanga Premium Member - reply

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I miss your tidbits of wisdom... I hope things are well.
Posted 10/16/2009 12:34 PM by Camant - reply


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